True Life Story From USA Guy Married to Ukrainian Girl

The letter that I received (below) was so unique, I made a special page for it. I didn't think it belonged on any of the above pages, so I placed it here. A lot of guys think that I hate FSU women, it is not true. A lot of guys think that there must be something wrong with me because I have decided not to settle down with an FSU girl. Well, I have no comment for that. One guy thought that I must be a negative person because I have not had luck with FSU women. Well, it is not my fault that they are wonderful when you meet them and then change so drastically a few months down the road.  The funniest part about this (the letters and comments attacking me and my personality) is that they come from guys who visit the FSU. They meet girls and have a great time. NONE of these guys have lived there. I have stated on my site many times, that you can visit and have the best time of your entire life, but when you live there and spend significant time with these women, it is completely different. 16 trips to the FSU is NOTHING compared to 16 straight weeks of living there. And I lived there for 7 years. Bottom line - walk in my shoes before you judge me.

Here is the guy's letter. Take from it what you will. It has NOT been edited at all. (I XX-ed out his name.)

Hello Jim,

A few years ago we shared a couple of emails concerning agencies. I happened to be
reading your information again and wanted to respond back to you. I married a lady
from Ukraine last year and find all that you say is true.

I truly value the time you’ve taken to create your web site and relay all of this
information.

Concerning my success, I married a lady from Ukraine last year. While I truly love
my wife and want to be committed to her, there are times when I don’t know if my
heart can hold out from the pressure. She is hot and cold, very opinionated (whereby
my opinions are always wrong), and so very sensitive. My wife is very loving and
caring, but it’s a hard cold, love and not the warm, generous love that most Western
men desire. While I want to have a family with her and be happy, I am finding out
why most of these marriages simply don’t work out. The divergence of cultures is
really quite wide and no agency will ever tell the truth about this.

In the year that I have been married, I’ve tried to be the very loving man and
provider. Men need to know that with Russian/Ukrainian women, this is simply not
enough. My mother was very happy that my dad worked for a large corporation and
provided enough so that she could be at home. She did the right thing and took good
care of my siblings and me. However, for a Russian/Ukrainian woman, they still think
of themselves as “victims” if they have to depend on you. Due to their culture, they
never will ever trust a man. In my case, I really treat my wife like a queen, but it
isn’t good enough. She still finds time to tell me about my faults and how I need to
be a “better man”. Well, that street goes two ways.

I stay in contact in with men who are married to these woman on a regular basis,
They tell me that life is tough since these women are dominating, fully opinionated
and simply do not like living here. No matter how you do for them, they culture and
life at home was still much better – even if they lived in a shack without a decent
bathroom or kitchen.

Just to let you know, I’ve been down the agency route many times before I found my
wife. I went on an AFA romance tour and found it to be a cruel joke. While they work
hard to help you and give you a good time, it cannot simply withstand the inertia of
real life.

I too have gone on a tour with Jack Bragg as well. All I can say here is meeting
Jack Bragg once is more than enough. What he advertises and what you get are two
different things. I just wish more men could be warned of him before they spend
their money.

Sometimes if I had to do over I would have not gone down this road to finding a wife
in the former USSR. Like your advice, I would have found someone from another
country in Europe. While I do love the scenery, architecture and culture of Russia
and Ukraine, a man simply must have more than that. I find that many men get
addicted to taking the trips there just due to their lack of fulfilling life in the
USA. This was me – I have a good education, successful (although one with a high
price), a good home, etc. But my lack of having a family made me desperate when I
reached my middle thirties. With this, good (but naïve) men start to look for other
avenues. This is where so many men then get duped in into this Russian bride
disaster. Even when their pockets are empty by the agencies, they like a lovesick
puppy keep coming back for more.
Interestingly, I spoke to a consulate worker at an embassy off they record, and he
told me that the US embassies really frown on these marries due to the problems
they’ve seen with American/Russian couples. They say that the cultures are just too
different for them to be successful.

In closing, thank you for your time in reading my letter. I also have valued your
time in creating this valuable web site. If a man married a woman in the Ukraine and
then has problems and possibly needs to divorce, how does one get divorced in the
Ukraine? I know this sounds like a stupid question, but in the future this may be a
reality. I sincerely appreciate your time and reply.

Best Regards,
XXXX

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