Russian Girls

Russian girls are a unique breed. This is obvious. Russian culture is so unique. I don't know if ths is because Russian girls have lived in the Russian cold for so long. (Warmer climate makes a friendlier person. World fact. Ask around) Or if 70 years of Socialism make a person so hard and cold that they will ever recover. In any event, Russian girls are very different from all other girls on the planet.

Is this such a good thing? Well, every person is different. You will have to find out for yourself. A Russian girl will tell you that Russian girls are the most beautiful, intelligent and wonderful girls in the world. That is ego talking, not fact. If you ask guys from the former Soviet Union countries like Azerbaijan, Georgia, Kazakhstan (NOT Borat!!!), etc, they will all tell you the exact same thing. "Russian women are good to have fun with for a short time, but not to marry." Russian themselves have a joke about this. "The 2 best things in the world are a Russian woman; and a return ticket back home."

I have no doubt that there are thousands of guys who are dating a Russian girl a this moment. They think that their Russian girl is the greatest thing on the Earth. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but these guys do not live in Russia. These guys are dating their Russian girl from a distance. They visit their Russian girl once or twice a year and have the best time of their lives. Like I just said, dating a Russian woman for a short time is great. These guys are not living with their Russian girl for 3 months or one year straight. They are not experiencing everyday life with their Russian girl. They are experiencing a vacation with their Russian girl. And this is the best way to do it. But marrying your Russian girl will change everything.

Dating a single Russian girl is great. Having your single Russian girl become a married Russian girl is like defusing a time bomb. If you don't have the right tools, if you are not prepared and if you don't do it perfectly...well...BOOM!!!! A single Russian girl will do her best to sell herself so that she can become a married Russian woman. Once this single Russian girl becomes a married Russian woman, she no longer needs to sell herself and she is free to be herself. This changed Russian woman is much different than the single Russian girl that you were dating. 

We all know that women (and men) change after marriage. Well, to put this lightly, Russian girls describe the Russian personality like the Russian weather. Cold or hot. There is not doubt in my mind, that your single Russian girl is hot...both in looks and in character. And I have no doubt that this will change when your single Russian girl stops being single. This might even happen before the ring is on her finger. You never know.

I know this all sounds negative. My whole site comes off as negative. I don't mean to be negative. I try to be realistic. And if someone wants to call me pessimistic, fine. I  will simply call him delusional. (Is a realist considered a pessimist because he says things that an optimist considers to be negative? Well, then the optimist is delusional.) The point is, I want you to be aware that Russian girls are not the fairy tale princesses that marriage agencies make them out to be. They are simply women. And not that much different from women all over the world.

True story. A foreign guy that I knew in Russia got his single Russian girlfriend pregnant. They had to get married. After their child was born, he constantly wanted to go out. He would go out and single Russian girls would call him a bad guy because they saw his wedding ring and thought that he should not be out without his wife. This discouraged him - until he learned that single Russian girls actually like married Russian guys more than they like single Russian men. (This is true. If a guy was good enough for some girl to marry, then he is good enough for other single Russian girls to marry. And since a guy will treat his mistress better than he will treat his wife, the mistress wins. And it is good for the ego to take a man from his wife.) Anyway, the reason he was out was because he hated being at home. He said that his wife had changed so much that he didn't even know her anymore. (This is before one year of marriage) He loved his child but dreaded being with his wife.

He very simply put it like this: "If I could have my girlfriend back, the single Russian girl that I was dating before we got married, I would be thrilled. But, I am stuck with this devil woman and I am thoroughly miserable."

Look before you leap.

As you should already know, there are thousands of Russian scammers. Even if you find what you believe to be a wonderful Russian girl, there are several kinds of scams that she could be running. Read my NEW SCAMS page for info on scam and what to look for.

* IMPORTANT - I cannot stress this enough. Everyone thinks that I hate Russian Girls. This is not true. My site is negative, there is no way of avoiding this. I am NOT saying that all Russia Girls are bad. There are MANY good Russian people. There are MANY good Russian girls. I just want you to be aware that finding that good one is not going to be easy and you must be aware of both sides of the story in order to make a good decision!!

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