File Updated:  July 1, 07

Why are these FREE sites on my Black List?

 This is a little complicated. As you might have noticed, I have a list of free sites on my Gold List. But, at the same time, I say that I consider free sites to be a HUGE waste of time. So, as one idiot, pointed out, why would I recommend a few free sites if I think free sites are a waste of time? Here is the deal...

The free sites that I have listed try their best to keep scammers of their sites. But, they still have them. In the spring of 2007, I noticed a huge change in scamming. Most scammers are leaving regular dating sites (who somewhat try to control the scammer problem) and they are moving (in large numbers) to free sites. Free sites usually don't maintain their site all that much, and because they offer a free service, they don't want to work at the scammer problem. So, now, I advise against free sites even more than in the past. (But, like I said, the free sites on my Gold List DO try to keep them free of scammers. It helps, but every site has scammers.)

Here is the other reason I dislike free sites. The girls found on them are usually not nearly as serious as girls that join agencies. Joining an agency, checking for mail, writing letters and having to go to the agency is much too difficult for many girls. They prefer to sit at home and do as they please. So, they are not as serious.

This is bad for you because you will waste a lot of time on these girls and end up with nothing. If you are broke, poor or stingy, DON'T even bother to start looking for a Russian woman. Forget the fact that she will require a lot of money after you are together, the costs involved to simply bring her to your country are huge. (Read it here.) Too many guys don't want to spend money on this process, but if you join a cheap agency with non-serious girls, you will spend more time and money (in the end) than if you find a good agency, pay their fees and find a good, serious woman.

Don't believe me? Fine. I don't care. Try it for yourself. You'll see. 

I am NOT saying these sites are scams, you can use them, I am saying - these free sites have MAJOR scammer problems.
They will stay on my Black List until they do something about their scammer problem.

Match City (matchcity.com)

One 2 Find (one2find.de)

Open Cupid (opencupid.com)

Russian Passions (russianpassions.com)

Single 123 (single123.com)

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