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File Updated: Aug, 06

Why are "Me N You" (me-n-you.com) or "HeartaFire" (heartafire.com)
Black Sea Singles" on my Black List?

The actions of stupid people prove their guilt. This agency has recently (today is Jan 6, 07) changed its name. Rather that stopping their unethical practiecs, they choose to fool you and me. I have always been open to the agencies on my Black List, but this seals the deal. They proved it themselves that they deserve to be here.

It gets worse. Today is Apr 27, 07. I noticed that they have posted a letter that some crazy Dutch guy wrote about me a couple years ago filled with crazy lie after crazy lie. So, instead of talking to me and working out the problems, they just try to discredit me. This is what a scam agency does. They don't try to talk to me. They simply try to discredit me. Like I said, actions prove guilt.

This woman sets up a small little web site. It has about 30 girls who might or might not be working with her. The site looks good and she is very convincing in assuring you that everything is legit. But nothing is real. She changed the name once, after people caught on, and I am expecting that the name will change again. (I have conclusive proof.)

Here is what she is doing exactly.

The girls (some or all) and office staff is working with her. Everything appears to be real. You go, they rent a car to pick you up at the airport. (you pay) They take you to the office and show you the flat they rented for you (you pay) You meet the girls you were corresponding with (you pay) You go out once, maybe twice (or maybe the girl can't be found) and the office tells you that the girl isn't interested or found someone else.

The scam is that they nickel and dime you the whole way and the girl never had any intention of being with you. She is working with the owner. This story has been told to me many times. And my conclusive proof has to remain a secret, or they will use it in their favour.

The owner speaks well, and explains her side well, but while she denies only one complaint against her, there are a few more complaining about different girls from different men. Maybe one nutbag did go off the deep end, but when multiple other guys complain about the exact same thing that is posted here, majority rules.

Reports continue to flow in. Guys asking me to explain more, then visiting, then telling me I was right on the money. Girls cannot be found when guys visit. The owner BSing her arse off. Guys basically getting shafted by this agency. TRUST ME. My Spidey-sense is always right. 

MORE!!!! Yet another guy that has to pay for services he did not ask for, is told the girl is not available much for his visit and asked again and again to buy presents. He himself said that the agency works on getting money from you wherever and however they can, lvoe and relationships seem to be nowhere on the ballot.

 UPDATE: Lyudmila emailed me in July 2005 and politely and clearly explained her side. (Like I said, she is good at convincing and easing.) I decided to be a nice guy and told her that if she agreed to my terms, I would remove her agency from my agency. What were my terms?

  1. Not to advertise her girls on other free sites.

  2. Not to force male clients to use her services.

  3. Not to ask girls to date men as a favour to her.

What was her reply? Her rude reply basically told me to go to hell. Are my terms unreasonable? If so, let me know. So, if she won't agree to these easy, legitimate agency terms, why would anyone use her agency?

HeartaFire (Heart & Fire) & Black Sea Singles
Manager - Ludmila (Lyudmila) Cherdyntseva
Address - Odessa, Ukraine


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