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How
To Weed Out a Scammer & Then What To Do
Attention
- This page has important information for everyone. Please read.
I wanted to make this page
years ago. But scammers read my site and I didn't want them to see it.
Now, I have finally made an access file, so Russians and Ukrainians
CANNOT view my site. So, I can now put this info.
For years, I tried to think
of a way to quickly find out if you are talking to a scammer or a real
girl. Well, after many years of operating my site, I think I have found
a way to do this. MOST scammers do NOT read letters. The scammer groups
don't and most individual scammers don't. Some individual scammers, the
good ones, do in fact read your letters. So, this advice is not
100% foolproof.
Put this question into your
letter. 3 consecutive letters. Put it in the letter in a place that you
would not normally do so. This way, it is embedded in your letter and a
scammer won't see it by skimming over your letter quickly. Only a girl
that is actually reading your letter will see it. If she ignores this
questions 3 times, she is NOT reading your letter.
"Do you
know the program Spokoinoi Noch Malyshei?"
This is a children's cartoon
show that EVERY Russian knows. Ukrainians probably won't know it. If a
girl is reading your letter, she will be amazed that you know and
definitely comment on it. If she does not comment on it when you ask it
in 3 consecutive letters (maybe she missed it in one letter or forget
to mention it in the second letter), it means that your girl is not
reading your letters. It could also mean that if you are using an
agency that translates letters, the translator is not reading the
letters and you are being scammed by the agency.
I would drop a girl in this
situation. If she is not reading your letters, why would you bother
wasting time on her?
How to Check if You're Talking to a Scammer
If she asks for money -
she's a scammer! It couldn't be any easier. GOD!!!!!
Most scammers have stopped
the original scams of "I love you. Send me money." or "Can you pay for
my mother's operation?". Most scams these days are for tickets,
passports and visas. So, if you are asked for money, here is what you
do...
Tell her that you would love
to meet, but would prefer to travel to her. Ask her when a good time
for your visit would be. A real girl would be happy to meet you and she
would not fly to you for the first meeting. A scammer will argue and
probably have some reason for you not to visit. That is your proof that
you are talking to someone insincere. Then you can tell me.
Some scammers will call your
bluff. (Guys, you really should get your butt on a plane and go see
her.) If you can't go at that time. Simply drop the topic of meeting. A
scammer will quickly get back to it because she wants your
money.
What to Do After You Discover You're Talking to a
Scammer
NEVER
confront a scammer. (She will give you a reason for being blacklisted
and you will believe her.)
NEVER
show a girl an anti-scam site or tell her you saw her there.
You will only help her scam
the next guy more easily.
Here is what you do...
Drop her without a
word and send her info to me!
NEVER CONFRONT A GIRL AS BEING A SCAMMER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why? THOUSANDS of guys have done this and continue to do this. This is the dumbest thing you could. Why?
What do you expect her to do? Confess? Tell you that she, in fact, is a scammer? DUH!!!!!!
Here are the 2 scenarios that you will encounter if you accuse a girl of being a scammer...
#1 - She is NOT a scammer,
she is a real girl. You will offend her so badly that she will never
talk to you again. Have you ever lived in Russia for 7 years? Probably
not. I have. I know the women. They get offended easily. And being
accused of being a scammer is pretty big. She will not want to talk to
you again? You think that she will forgive you? Why? Who the hell are
you. Just one more guy in a LONG list of guys that she has met online.
She will have no problem with dumping a virtual guy when she has 100
more wanting to be with her.
#2 - She IS a scammer. But
she wants your money. So, she will tell that it was put there by her
jealous Russian ex-boyfriend or some crazy foreign guy that loved her
and she rejected him. She will be outraged. She will convince you that
she is sweet and a victim. That some crazy guy is to blame. Guys
believe the girl over the reports. And this is how you know. A real
girl will stop talking to you. A scammer will continue talking to you
as if nothing ever happened.
Never confront a girl.
Ignore the reports that you saw and just keeping talking to her. Never
mention money or meeting; a scammer will get around to it sooner or
later, and then you will know for sure.
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