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Newbie
Info
If you are new to this and
not sure what you are doing or what you should be doing, let me try to
give you some pointers to get you headed along the right path. To
start, expect to work and work hard to achieve what you are obvious
here to achieve. If you expect it to be easier than finding a woman to
settle down with in your city, you are mistaken. And expect to pay a
lot more.
Jim, will
it be easy to find a foreign wife?
No. Searching, writing,
weeding, visiting and clicking. It will be harder to find a foreign
wife than a girl in your own country. If you are looking to marry
someone quick, give her citizenship and be with her for a few years, it
is easy. If you are looking for something real and lasting, be prepared
to work hard for it.
Jim, how
much will it cost?
After all is said and
done...$20,000 to $30,000.
Agency fees, internet, visiting, gifts, visa and citizenship stuff...it
all adds up
Jim, how
should I go about finding something real and lasting?
Spend countless hours
reading my site and forum sites. Everything! Knowledge is king!
Then decide if you are doing this yourself or through an agency (read
below for that) and know the other side. (The girls.)
How many girls are actually looking for something serious? I'll break
it down...
25% - scammers or ringers.
25% - serious girls looking for love.
50% - not serious, only curious.
What should you do? Think
with your head, not your penis. Never fall in love with a photo and
some letters. Chase something realistic. What does that mean? I'll
break it down...
10% of agency women -
amazing goddesses.
20% of agency women - beautiful girls.
20% of agency women - good looking girls.
50% of agency women - not that attractive.
Do NOT waste your time with
the goddesses. You have NO chance and they are not really interested.
You'd be amazed at all the girls who guys thought were OK and after
meeting were blown away by their beauty. If you want to waste time with
the goddesses, go ahead. But you won't go anywhere. And a goddess in
Russia needs the same amount of work (and life) as a goddess in your
country.
A very angry Russian girl that posts on forums once said something VERY
intelligent. And it is the only thing that I agree with her about. Good
Russian girls will never meet their foreign prince because the prince
is chasing a goddess that he will never get.
My advice? Forget the goddess and find a good looking girl that is
serious and will make a good wife. It's difficult, we men are weak when
our Little Johnson is hard. But try it and see for yourself. You'll
waste a lot of time and money, get nowhere and in the end, find a
really nice, good looking girl and wonder why you wasted time chasing
the prissy goddess. (I know that every guy's opinion of beauty is
different, but we all know that goddess when we see her. Even the best
looking, rich foreign guy is nothing more than a foreigner to the
goddess. Sorry, guys. It is true.)
Age
I mention this on the Facts
page, but let me get more specific. The seriousness of girls (in any
country) is directly related to their age. The older the girl, the more
serious she will be. And although Russian girls all say that they are
serious and looking for a husband, this is not true. On top of that,
there is the divorce factor. So, try to think with you brain
and not your penis again...
Ages 18-22 - forget them
altogether. They are immature, in college and have no idea what they
want. You will never last even a few years with a girl from this age
group. The only thing you will get from this age group is a lot of nice
letters and maybe a nice visit.
Ages 23-27 - what I used to
chase. And although I had more success, they are still not as serious
as you want them to be. They think that hey know
what they want. This age bracket holds the largest amount of scammers.
You might get a few years out of these girls.
Ages 28 and up - this is
where you will have the most luck. They are probably divorced (or so
dismayed at Russian men) and so are looking for something real and
lasting; just like you. There are some scammers in this age group, but
far fewer.
I know that you won't follow
this advice, but at least consider it. The younger the girl, the worse
it will be for you. If you look at my dating stories from Russia, the
'time-wasters' were young. The more serious relationships were with
slightly older girls. The problem is that young girls have more energy
and flatter men more. Men respond to this. Older girls are calmer
(because more serious) and men take this as disinterest. Bottom line,
forget girls younger than 23. Girls under 30, be careful.
So,
deciding the route to your foreign bride.
Your first and most
important step is choosing the place to look. You basically have 3
choices, free (or general dating sites), address sellers and lastly,
agencies. I will try to quickly and accurately explain each...(without
naming names.)
Free/General
Dating Sites
Free places are few in
number, so most people know them. General dating sites have profiles
from around the world.
Pros:
Cons:
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More scammers than other
places.
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Many unserious girls.
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Wasting time wading
(waiting) through the scammers and unserious girls.
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No help with services you
might need.
Address
Sellers
These places are easy to see
on the internet. They have 10's of thousands of profiles from girls in
every nook and cranny of the FSU. They sell the girls' contact info and
not much more.
Pros:
Cons:
Agencies
These places are also easy to see. They have a lot fewer profiles than
the address sellers with women from 1 or 2 cities. They sell the girls'
contact info (if available) or have a forwarding and translating
service.
Pros:
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They meet and know the
women.
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The girls are more serious
than on other sites.
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They have a full range of
services available.
Cons:
In conclusion, decide what
you need and look at those kinds of sites. My Gold List has all these, so
it's a good place to start.
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