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Crime & Safety in the FSU

I should have done this a long time ago. A lot of guys are worried about this and hear a lot of bad stories. So, first, let's take a look at crime in Russia. Here are official crime statistics for May 19 - May 25, 2004. (6 days, not even a week.) for Moscow. Yes, bigger city, more crime. But this is indicative of all cities across FSU.

Crime Total Solved
Murder
Assault
Robbery
Rape
Theft
Flat Burglaries
Car Theft

15
27
327
6
1,059
238
82

7
17
132
4
295
18
3

For the Record

Car Accidents
a) killed
b) injured
Suicides
Missing Persons
Bodies Discovered
120
16
84
30
60
28

6 days! Notice the bodies discovered isn't factored into the missing persons. And the missing persons isn't factored into another category because the fate of those people is unknown, but we pretty much know what happened to most of them. Did you count the amount of people who died (probably died) in 6 days in one city?

Safety

Your safety. I am sure you have heard stories of foreigners having problems. (And I know scammers tell guys stories about foreigners not being safe in FSU.) #1, the girls are scamming you. #2, the real stories always start like this...

"I was walking home from the bar at 3:00 am..."

"I was alone in a cafe when some Russian guys heard me speaking English."

"I met a girl alone at a bar and she invited me to do something."

Guys who have had problems were not thinking. Don't go to a bar alone. Don't be on the street at midnight. I have known a guy who has been in fights, robbed by the cops and has had other run-ins. He was drunk every time and it was the middle of the night every time. I know another guy who was rolled and robbed. He was flashing his wad of cash in a bar and got drunk and walked out alone. (What do you expect?)

I have never, not once, ever had any little problem. I have been on the street at midnight. (Not drunk.) I have simply been smart. Don't think that everyone is out to get you. Don't stick out like a sore thumb and nobody will even know your not Russian. Don't speak loud and announce that you are a foreigner. Don't go out at night alone.

Behave as if you are walking around Harlem at 11:00 pm. Inconspicuous. 

I am sure I have forgotten some advice. Advice for travelers is different than for a guy living here. So, let me know some more tips, I'll post them.  

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